Cathartic Resolution [I play it off (Part2)]
I was thinking in the shower this morning (as I do), so many hate the idea of 'eternal love', 'one forever' and being 'in love forever'. I just don't understand the pessimistic attitude. Why think that something that can be so strong is temporary? Perhaps even, doomed?
'Youth is like diamonds in the sun...Diamonds are forever'.
Why can't love be? In my opinion, the idea of youth is another societal impression that changes a persons perception of themselves. Perhaps love is a way of curing insecurities someone might have towards themselves. So maybe a pessismistic attitude towards love is stimulated by insecurities. Although I can't say that my optimisitc attitude towards love extinguishes the idea that I have insecurities. Moreso to the contrary. But why let the possibility of having 'love for life' get sucked into a blackhole? I just hope that it is not a laziness of wanting to work at a relationship.
In my experience, successful relationships are relatively easy relationships. However, they do need work, but if someone doesn't want to be in the relationship, it's over. It's like Jude Law and Natalie Portman in 'Closer', when she turns around and tells him that she doesn't love him, and a minute later she's gone. Emotion so incredibly weighs out physicality. Blah. It's all blah. All I know is that I can love forever. And I know that love can last forever. It can work. And the excuse that 'in modern day it's harder to resist temptation and forge a relationship with one person for your life' is complete bullshit. That's a cop out and lazy.
I will continue to love. No matter what people say. *thank's whitney* (crack is wack)
What a great shower.
OnAirwithBlackPunk : Gwen Stefani - The Real Thing (Wendy And Lisa Slow Jam Mix)
'Youth is like diamonds in the sun...Diamonds are forever'.
Why can't love be? In my opinion, the idea of youth is another societal impression that changes a persons perception of themselves. Perhaps love is a way of curing insecurities someone might have towards themselves. So maybe a pessismistic attitude towards love is stimulated by insecurities. Although I can't say that my optimisitc attitude towards love extinguishes the idea that I have insecurities. Moreso to the contrary. But why let the possibility of having 'love for life' get sucked into a blackhole? I just hope that it is not a laziness of wanting to work at a relationship.
In my experience, successful relationships are relatively easy relationships. However, they do need work, but if someone doesn't want to be in the relationship, it's over. It's like Jude Law and Natalie Portman in 'Closer', when she turns around and tells him that she doesn't love him, and a minute later she's gone. Emotion so incredibly weighs out physicality. Blah. It's all blah. All I know is that I can love forever. And I know that love can last forever. It can work. And the excuse that 'in modern day it's harder to resist temptation and forge a relationship with one person for your life' is complete bullshit. That's a cop out and lazy.
I will continue to love. No matter what people say. *thank's whitney* (crack is wack)
What a great shower.
OnAirwithBlackPunk : Gwen Stefani - The Real Thing (Wendy And Lisa Slow Jam Mix)
posted by Christopher at
7:13 PM
1 Comments:
You are right diamond is forever. And it does not come cheap - the best usually commands your utmost effort, and also draw the best out of you.
It is one of those pebbles you need to fill your life.
My sincere congratulations to your courage and determination to do the right things.
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Anonymous, at Sunday, April 23, 2006 4:52:00 PM
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